May We Dance Upon Their Graves

Incest Survivors, Spirituality and Ceremonies of Justice – the story of a woman living a rich, fulfilling life while waiting to dance on her sociopath father's grave.

New Year Resolution


So last Saturday I saw my ex girlfriend (Kitten) and her new girlfriend at the bar. It was no big deal. For those who don’t know the back story, she … Continue reading

January 21, 2014 · Leave a comment

Unveiling


One of the things that is complicated about the polyamory community is our strange inability to talk about our love lives, since everyone we know that is poly is likely … Continue reading

October 1, 2012 · Leave a comment

Burning the Journals


I just got back from a camping trip with my wife. With her support, I burned several boxes of old journals, dating back from my childhood through the present. It … Continue reading

August 28, 2012 · 11 Comments

No Letter


My wife nailed it. She said “there isn’t going to be a letter, she didn’t get what she wanted.” According to my aunt, my mom has allegedly written a letter … Continue reading

September 1, 2011 · 4 Comments

What I learned about faith and child sexual abuse


My adult spirituality developed in first or second year university. I was taking a philosophy of religion course, up to my neck in flashbacks and attending 12 step meetings of … Continue reading

January 30, 2011 · 4 Comments

What I’ve learned about happiness


I am a student of happiness right now. It started when I realized that I wasn’t actually happy. Nothing bad going on particularly, but not happy. That has changed. Then … Continue reading

January 13, 2011 · 4 Comments

Wedding Canopy


This picture is of someone’s real wedding canopy, it’s called Magical White Wedding by Ronsho, from Flickr. Our wedding was magical. It was a blessing of us and of our … Continue reading

September 9, 2010 · 2 Comments

Massage


I just had an hour long massage at a spa. Steam room, cucumber water, soft music, the whole bit. I decided to spend the money I’d been spending on therapy … Continue reading

June 15, 2010 · Leave a comment

the great divide


I can’t sleep so I’m writingthis in the middle of the night on my mini-laptop in bed. What a modern gal I am. My wife is sleeping next to me, … Continue reading

May 22, 2010 · 2 Comments

Meditation


My back yard is full of noise, concrete, chain link fence overlooking neighbours in balconies. But if I angle my chair Facing the garden, seeing the leaves of the roses … Continue reading

March 13, 2010 · 1 Comment

Non-Random Events


One of the things I believe as part of my religion is that communication with the Gods is not just a one way flow.  Events that feel significant in one … Continue reading

February 16, 2010 · 2 Comments

Getting to Core


I just reread my last two posts (and found and fixed some typos). Getting to certainty is important. When I read Tarot, I get myself calm and centred, and then … Continue reading

February 6, 2010 · 2 Comments

unfinished business


(Trigger warning to my ritual abuse survivor allies – the following has description of positive pagan ceremony. ) Last night I got together with a friend of mine who shares … Continue reading

October 20, 2009 · 1 Comment

Exercise


I’m out of shape and overweight. I’ve lost over 20 pounds this year, mostly water I think, just by counting calories and exercising a little. I’ve got about 30 more … Continue reading

September 4, 2009 · 4 Comments

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