May We Dance Upon Their Graves

Incest Survivors, Spirituality and Ceremonies of Justice – the story of a woman living a rich, fulfilling life while waiting to dance on her sociopath father's grave.

I am open, and I am willing


Hey folks. I know I haven’t been writing here much lately. I’m working on my book a bit, it’s coming along nicely, actually. I got a bit of a boost … Continue reading

May 28, 2011 · 8 Comments

Transition Point


She walks toward swords held crossed above her head kilt swinging strong legs, proud back the bagpipes drone and wail, supporting her carying within it the voices of ancestors the … Continue reading

March 13, 2010 · 1 Comment

Getting to Core


I just reread my last two posts (and found and fixed some typos). Getting to certainty is important. When I read Tarot, I get myself calm and centred, and then … Continue reading

February 6, 2010 · 2 Comments

Exercise


I’m out of shape and overweight. I’ve lost over 20 pounds this year, mostly water I think, just by counting calories and exercising a little. I’ve got about 30 more … Continue reading

September 4, 2009 · 4 Comments

Magic and Meditation


I attended my friend’s celebration of life this week. It seems she was a remarkable woman. I also found out at this ceremony that she was probably a survivor as … Continue reading

June 16, 2009 · 5 Comments

Pagan Conference


This weekend I attended a Pagan conference and met some interesting and helpful people. Have you ever had a period in your life where you appear to be in Grace? … Continue reading

May 18, 2009 · 5 Comments

Email to a survivors organization in my home town


I just sent this. Hi there, I’m sorry for doing this in an email, but wasn’t certain I could explain all this well over the phone. I hope you can … Continue reading

May 4, 2009 · 5 Comments

Songs to dance on an abusers grave to


The concept of dancing on your abusers’ grave seems to have some resonance for survivors I’ve talked to. Not all of us are of Scottish heritage, or even interested in … Continue reading

April 13, 2009 · 8 Comments

In a cold and northern town


[A song in progress – celtic/folk story ballad feel. Key of D major] In a cold and northern town, the days are short and the nights are long A little … Continue reading

March 26, 2009 · 8 Comments

Going on living


As part of my ongoing quest to stop Hiding I’m starting gradually to getting back into both doing things I’m passionate about and letting others witness me doing them. Tonight, … Continue reading

March 24, 2009 · 19 Comments

Slogans for Survivor Pride Parades


Last night, I made the mistake of eating a bit too much chocolate before bed (it was worth it) and lay awake for awhile. My last post got me thinking … Continue reading

February 7, 2009 · 4 Comments

Trying to make it Normal


I spent the weekend with a bunch of friends and acquaintances at a storytelling retreat. At this same retreat last year was the first time I told people publicly that … Continue reading

February 4, 2009 · 2 Comments

Bloggy Award Nominations and Coming Out


Honour-bound, as I am to nominate some bloggy award winners (5) I’ve decided to start in manageable steps. Here’s the thing. A blog about “incest survivors, sprituality and ceremonies of … Continue reading

January 24, 2009 · 1 Comment

Sharpening the Sword to Dance on My Abusers Grave


So I now have the sword I’m going to use to dance on my fathers grave, when he will do me and the world the favour of finally succumbing to … Continue reading

January 19, 2009 · 6 Comments

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