May We Dance Upon Their Graves

Incest Survivors, Spirituality and Ceremonies of Justice – the story of a woman living a rich, fulfilling life while waiting to dance on her sociopath father's grave.

New Year Resolution


So last Saturday I saw my ex girlfriend (Kitten) and her new girlfriend at the bar. It was no big deal. For those who don’t know the back story, she … Continue reading

January 21, 2014 · Leave a comment

New Year – Releasing, Banishing and Blessing


Yesterday I did a ritual of blessing and letting go with one of my friends. We both practice the same religion but hadn’t done any ceremony together before. It was … Continue reading

December 31, 2013 · 2 Comments

Dating your parents (no not literally, thankfully!)


I subscribe to the theory that what we are attracted to in a mate is often a reflection of both the ways we’ve learned to accept love as children and … Continue reading

October 21, 2013 · 6 Comments

Staying present and moving at the same time


I have two books on the go right now. Writing, not reading. One is a novel I wrote about three years ago, which I’m trying to polish and complete. The … Continue reading

July 27, 2012 · 6 Comments

Ordinary Grief


Well, my new relationship is now over. She broke up with me about a week ago, by email, after spending a lovely day together. That was hard. Some people need … Continue reading

May 28, 2012 · 10 Comments

Ethical Polyamory


Okay, I know this is a blog about later recovery from sexual abuse, and specifically waiting for my abuser to die so I can dance on his grave,  so what … Continue reading

November 27, 2011 · 7 Comments

Quick Update


Well, things have settled down a bit. We’ve moved into separate levels of the house now, and set up our own kitchens and bedrooms. We’re still sleeping in the same … Continue reading

October 11, 2011 · 9 Comments

Grieving and staying present


Last night my wife held me while I cried for a long time. She curled around me, spoon-style, and held me solidly. I cried for the loss of her holding … Continue reading

September 30, 2011 · 9 Comments

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