May We Dance Upon Their Graves

Incest Survivors, Spirituality and Ceremonies of Justice – the story of a woman living a rich, fulfilling life while waiting to dance on her sociopath father's grave.

Meditation on Father’s Day from an incest survivor


I wrote several poems today after a meditation walk I do to clear my head. Here are two of them: 3.  Father’s day Sobs shake me in the silence of … Continue reading

June 15, 2014 · 4 Comments

Another disappointing response from a relative


I had my aunt visit recently, the one who was also assaulted by my father. When I visited her a couple of years ago, she was very accepting of what … Continue reading

August 20, 2012 · 14 Comments

Soundtrack for a Survivors Sword Dancing Road Trip


I’m planning to rent a bus to drive up to my father’s grave with all the survivor friends I can muster. So far I have about six, including my Aunt.  … Continue reading

February 20, 2010 · 4 Comments

Non-Random Events


One of the things I believe as part of my religion is that communication with the Gods is not just a one way flow.  Events that feel significant in one … Continue reading

February 16, 2010 · 2 Comments

Perseverence Practice – Day 4


I was able to practice voice for longer last time, and it felt good. It’s amazing how alive I feel when I’m singing well. I still haven’t done the full … Continue reading

October 23, 2009 · 2 Comments

Perseverence Practice – Voice Day 3


Well, I’ve managed to practice voice for two days now. Mostly I just did the physical stretches and some warm up vocalizations, not the actual practice, but I’m figuring out … Continue reading

October 22, 2009 · 1 Comment

unfinished business


(Trigger warning to my ritual abuse survivor allies – the following has description of positive pagan ceremony. ) Last night I got together with a friend of mine who shares … Continue reading

October 20, 2009 · 1 Comment

Feminist Vitamins


I’ve been telling my friends that coming back from my week at camp I feel like I’ve had a megadose of ultra-strength feminist Mother Earth vitamins. It’s not like I”m … Continue reading

August 29, 2009 · 4 Comments

In the wake of proof


Knowing I have scar tissue has changed my life I think. It’s like an incontrovertable validation of what I’ve been saying all along. No longer can I doubt or go … Continue reading

July 11, 2009 · 14 Comments

Warrior Victorious in Pap Test


So the gyne visit went about as well as it could possibly go, and better than I could have envisioned. The nurse-practitioner I saw was very experienced and nice and … Continue reading

July 8, 2009 · 17 Comments

The Pink Gang – Warrior Women


This is a video I found made by an Indian woman about the Gulabi Gang – women who are fighting government corruption and male violence and promoting women’s empowerment in … Continue reading

June 24, 2009 · 1 Comment

Magic and Meditation


I attended my friend’s celebration of life this week. It seems she was a remarkable woman. I also found out at this ceremony that she was probably a survivor as … Continue reading

June 16, 2009 · 5 Comments

Email to a survivors organization in my home town


I just sent this. Hi there, I’m sorry for doing this in an email, but wasn’t certain I could explain all this well over the phone. I hope you can … Continue reading

May 4, 2009 · 5 Comments

Obsessing about all the ways I’ve come out as an incest survivor, rather than sleeping, at 5:20 am


It’s 5:20 am and I can’t sleep. I’m not one of those poor people who actually gets up at 5 am for work or the insane ones that get up … Continue reading

April 22, 2009 · 7 Comments

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