May We Dance Upon Their Graves

Incest Survivors, Spirituality and Ceremonies of Justice – the story of a woman living a rich, fulfilling life while waiting to dance on her sociopath father's grave.

Benefits of being a sexual abuse survivor…


I’ve been feeling disheartened lately. I’ve been practicing tantric yoni massage (no endorsement implied in the link, but the description seems about right, and it even mentions survivors), both on my … Continue reading

March 4, 2014 · 3 Comments

New Year Resolution


So last Saturday I saw my ex girlfriend (Kitten) and her new girlfriend at the bar. It was no big deal. For those who don’t know the back story, she … Continue reading

January 21, 2014 · Leave a comment

New Year – Releasing, Banishing and Blessing


Yesterday I did a ritual of blessing and letting go with one of my friends. We both practice the same religion but hadn’t done any ceremony together before. It was … Continue reading

December 31, 2013 · 2 Comments

Herne’s blessings – vulva healing and sexuality


Surprize! Getting the inflammation in my vulva down to a dull roar did not instantly fix my sex life. Surprize! Struggling while trying to restore my vulva to the state … Continue reading

July 2, 2013 · 5 Comments

Care and feeding of the unconscious


If you believe in astrology, I can sum up my experience this morning with one phrase: I am a Sagittarius with a moon in Scorpio. This means that my inside … Continue reading

April 20, 2013 · Leave a comment

Unveiling


One of the things that is complicated about the polyamory community is our strange inability to talk about our love lives, since everyone we know that is poly is likely … Continue reading

October 1, 2012 · Leave a comment

Burning the Journals


I just got back from a camping trip with my wife. With her support, I burned several boxes of old journals, dating back from my childhood through the present. It … Continue reading

August 28, 2012 · 11 Comments

Separating from Wife – I think


I came back home from my pilgrimage today. I have to say to all you Pagans out there – you’ll understand if you do real magic – you really have … Continue reading

September 29, 2011 · 7 Comments

No Letter


My wife nailed it. She said “there isn’t going to be a letter, she didn’t get what she wanted.” According to my aunt, my mom has allegedly written a letter … Continue reading

September 1, 2011 · 4 Comments

Visit with older brother – is the abuser dead yet?


My older brother called me on the weekend and we got together to watch his kid play in a sporting event. All in all it went well. He made an … Continue reading

August 1, 2011 · 1 Comment

I am open, and I am willing


Hey folks. I know I haven’t been writing here much lately. I’m working on my book a bit, it’s coming along nicely, actually. I got a bit of a boost … Continue reading

May 28, 2011 · 8 Comments

Free your vulva and the rest will follow.


In my meditation walk, I suddenly had a flash that my new motto was “Free your vulva and the rest will follow”.

February 26, 2011 · 6 Comments

What I learned about faith and child sexual abuse


My adult spirituality developed in first or second year university. I was taking a philosophy of religion course, up to my neck in flashbacks and attending 12 step meetings of … Continue reading

January 30, 2011 · 4 Comments

What I learned about anxiety – for child sexual abuse survivors


Feel whatever is there in a safe place The first time I remember not being anxious was after a 12 step meeting. My shoulders were relaxed. This had never happened … Continue reading

January 19, 2011 · 11 Comments

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