May We Dance Upon Their Graves

Incest Survivors, Spirituality and Ceremonies of Justice – the story of a woman living a rich, fulfilling life while waiting to dance on her sociopath father's grave.

In a cold and northern town

[A song in progress – celtic/folk story ballad feel. Key of D major]

In a cold and northern town, the days are short and the nights are long
A little girl grew up alone, surrounded by her family

When she was five years old she didn’t know that daddy’s weren’t allowed
She thought a monster’d come to kill her, (I) guess that’s what it was

A father owns his daughter, while not exactly true
was true enough to keep her enslaved and him free to abuse.

And now she dances a sword, atop his grave so fresh
And she dances victory, to drive away his cruel ghost


She cried at school until they teased her, bad crybaby, should grow up
She never heard she had a right to tell, or even
what to call it
when the monster called

And when in hospital he lay, they tried to save his life,
they got him into treatment, he got nursing from his wife.

And now she dances a sword dance, atop the monsters grave
And she dances victory and she is proud and she is brave

Her grandpa died when she was 12, her mother told her later
if he had known he’d have slayed that monster, he would have saved her

Her grandmamar, the monster’s mother, bravely faced the truth
She listened to her grown grand-daughter
and gave her back her family

Her Scots ancestors danced over
crossed swords  before battle to prove their hearts

Danced over their slain foes, to celebrate,
to keep vengeful spirits in their grave.

So now she dances a sword, atop his grave so fresh
and she dances victory, to seal his cruel ghost

So now she calls her fierce ancestors, to take his soul away
that never may he trouble her, in night or in the day, oh.

And now she dances a sword, atop his grave in victory
And she dances binding
to seal his cruel ghost.

And now she calls her fierce ancestors, to take the monster’s soul away
that he may trouble her no more, in night  or in the day

And may they trouble us no more
the men who try to rape/take our souls
and may we outlive them all!
and dance upon their graves!

[Note about men as abusers – The following are all true: most sexual abusers are men, women abuse children sexually too, boys get abused too, I have many men I love and who are my allies. I refer to abusers as men in my writing because that is my reality. Your mileage may vary, and that’s fine. If you’re against child sexual abuse, that’s all we need to be allies.]


8 comments on “In a cold and northern town

  1. murderousthoughts
    March 27, 2009

    WOW that is an awesome and well written song. It gave me chills.

    This is V..I guess you know I had to move my other blog 😦 I hope you will come read me and comment at this one! *safe hugs*


  2. sworddancewarrior
    March 27, 2009

    Thanks for the comment/support, V. Yes I saw your new blog and thought it was you – but just the once, I’ll have to get back over there.

  3. kate1975
    April 1, 2009

    Wow, so beautiful. So fierce. I love it.

    A few years ago I wrote a poem about my brother and dancing on his grave. He has been dead for a long time. I think this connection creatively is why I enjoy your blog so much. Thanks for pssting your song.


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  5. kate1975
    April 9, 2009


    I just wanted to say that after reading your song I went and wrote a real fierce survivor poem. Thanks for helping me get revved up.


  6. kate1975
    April 10, 2009

    Hmmm. I am still conflicted about sharing my poems on the blog. But if you would like I can send it to you email, along with the poem I wrote about dancing on my brother’s grave.


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